How can you keep a boyfriend from breaking up with you? If he is stubborn and determined, you cannot stop him. You can cry and beg all you want to, but you have to let him go. That does not mean that you need to let him go for good. You can use these expert tips to make him beg for your love.
When he is being difficult, your best tactic is to ignore him. If you call him, send him emails or text messages, it will only swell his ego. It makes him feel like a big man to have you pleading with him. You should not be encouraging him. If he wants to act like a child, treat him like a child. The only way to make a child behave is to send them to their room and go about doing your routine with the rest of the family. It is no different with your ex boyfriend. Isolate him and go on with your life.
The reason many men become difficult, is because of a low self esteem. It builds them up to have someone like you at their mercy. What you should do is tell him to get lost, but if you love him that would be impossible for you to do. He is being cruel and thoughtless of your feeling, and he needs to be taught a lesson. Although you are probably more mature and courteous than him, to wake him up you will have to get down in the dirt with him. You have to make him feel the same confusion and hurt that you are feeling. This will turn things around to your favor and maybe make him grow up and beg for your love.
To achieve this you need to drop out of sight for several weeks and have no contact with him at all. You won't lose him. He is just playing games with your head. When he does not hear from you for several weeks, he will think that maybe he carried things too far. Now, you will have him thinking he has lost you. This will make him panic and he will try to contact you. Let him see how it feels to have someone you love ignore you. Do not answer his emails, or text messages and when he calls let him leave a message.
After putting him through the wringer for a while, return his call. Tell him it was good to hear from him since you have been wanting to tell him something. He will think you are about to beg him to love you again. Imagine how his jaw will drop when you tell him you agree with the breakup. If you want to stun him some more, tell him you had been thinking about telling him you were unhappy with the relationship for some time. Wish him well and end the conversation. Don't be surprised to find an ex boyfriend that is growing up quick on your doorstep, begging for your forgiveness.
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